Effective Dating Tips For Women

May 2, 2009 by  
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It’s not true that it is only the first date that is likely to cause anxiety in you. As we seek to get male approvals at any cost, we start worrying ourselves about things like – Am I his date type? Will he find my jokes boring? Or will he think that my dress is out of style?

However, although first impression does linger around for while, it is not a deciding factor for your date to like you and you certainly do not require changing yourself hoping that he would like you more that way. It is also not advisable to experiment with you eyebrow shape or with your hairstyle during a first date.

First of all, don’t go overboard with blindly following all the ideas given by your date. If he suggests going for bowling and this involves things that are going to make you appear uncomfortable or foolish, then suggest something else. Often, women find it difficult engaging in conversations with men they barely know. In such a case, you can suggest activities that can keep both of you engaged, such as playing darts or horse-back riding.

Remember that the person you are dating is going to be or presently is your lover and not your therapist. Discussing emotional stories with him in the first few dates such as about your betraying ex-boyfriend, your selfish boss or your alcoholic father is going to be an immediate turn-off.

It is of immense importance to believe in you, whether it comes to dating or making yourself more appealing and approachable to guys. This is because, at the end of the day, it is this value of self-worth that is going to determine your confidence level and be manifested in your body language. No guy would like dating a woman who does not possess the coolness to strike a simple conversation with him.

Your main aim of dating should be able to relax and enjoy the whole experience. Emerging victorious in a dating game involves you being a good sport. No guy would like chatting with a nervous goat or with a girl who’s trying her best to impress him. Stop pretending something you are not and simply try going with the flow to make him fall for you naturally.

Dating Tips For Women

May 1, 2009 by  
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Do you want your guys go gaga for you? Below given are some dating tips that will ensure you that you win the odds in your dating game:

1. Being the Center of Attraction:

Research has shown that being the center of attraction, such as occupying the middle area in a room can do a great deal for you in attracting the opposite sex.

In case of a nightclub or a bar, it is always advisable to occupy the corners, since you are most likely to strike some interesting conversations in these areas. Hanging out near some wall or sitting at the table are the worst places to be at. It’s only in movies that some hot stranger will approach your table and ask you ‘May I join you?’

2. Getting the Right Color Appeal:

Wearing the right color appeal is the key of getting your dream date tempted to approach you. Some say that the best appealing color for women is pinkish peach. This color presents you as someone soft, caring, gentle, polite, and more ladylike. It can also help you appear more dynamic and sophisticated.

According to many experts, red is the color for you if you are looking for some strong men. However, since red is the color of power and sex, it can attract two kinds of men. The first, who are more than happy to get powerful women in their life and aren’t threatened at all by the fact that you are making a much bigger salary; the other kind will be those interested only in sex.

You can also judge your dream guy by the color they wear. Mostly, it is advisable to go for those wearing blue, since they are more likely to be faithful, consistent, stable, and always there for you.

3. Using a Body Language that Make Them Stumble:

The key to using a striking body language is to make yourself approachable. Avoid folding your arms or chewing ice, fingernails, or gum. These indicate frustration or anxiety, both of which are negative emotions and an immediate turn-off.

Don’t appear too superior or powerful. Listen to your partner and give him equal space to get yourself naturally accepted.