Effective Dating Tips For Women

May 2, 2009 by  
Filed under Dating Tips For Women


It’s not true that it is only the first date that is likely to cause anxiety in you. As we seek to get male approvals at any cost, we start worrying ourselves about things like – Am I his date type? Will he find my jokes boring? Or will he think that my dress is out of style?

However, although first impression does linger around for while, it is not a deciding factor for your date to like you and you certainly do not require changing yourself hoping that he would like you more that way. It is also not advisable to experiment with you eyebrow shape or with your hairstyle during a first date.

First of all, don’t go overboard with blindly following all the ideas given by your date. If he suggests going for bowling and this involves things that are going to make you appear uncomfortable or foolish, then suggest something else. Often, women find it difficult engaging in conversations with men they barely know. In such a case, you can suggest activities that can keep both of you engaged, such as playing darts or horse-back riding.

Remember that the person you are dating is going to be or presently is your lover and not your therapist. Discussing emotional stories with him in the first few dates such as about your betraying ex-boyfriend, your selfish boss or your alcoholic father is going to be an immediate turn-off.

It is of immense importance to believe in you, whether it comes to dating or making yourself more appealing and approachable to guys. This is because, at the end of the day, it is this value of self-worth that is going to determine your confidence level and be manifested in your body language. No guy would like dating a woman who does not possess the coolness to strike a simple conversation with him.

Your main aim of dating should be able to relax and enjoy the whole experience. Emerging victorious in a dating game involves you being a good sport. No guy would like chatting with a nervous goat or with a girl who’s trying her best to impress him. Stop pretending something you are not and simply try going with the flow to make him fall for you naturally.

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